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10/31/2006

life is short

BBC经常搞些悲天悯人的节目,例如非洲饥荒,全球变暖,时常让我觉得生命没有意思.

美国人民又活的过于生机勃勃,新闻上充满了群众喜闻乐见的话题,两个善良的本地美国妇女帮助一个被遣返的洪都拉斯妇女留在本地,大家然后齐齐拥抱,好一首催人奋斗的时代新曲!

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10/29/2006

sometimes out of our hands

他问她,"this is who i am", 他问她,"what life do you want?¨

她知道那是她想要的生活,从扭腰的钢筋森林逃出去,亲近大自然,拥有一份从容的生活

但即使英明神武如她,可以不顾一切,从扭腰带着青春叛逆的女儿,和前途未知的心爱的马,却不能选择

太多的责任,二十年来的生活轨迹,她不再拥有自己,

昨天重看<The Horse Whisperer >,很感慨,演员阵容极为整齐,没有一个是演技差的

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0119314/fullcredits

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可怜的弱智总统继续被大家嘲笑

rumos on the internets

肯定会被有识之士注册为什么网站,这个国家,真让我无语

http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/flash/internets.php

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10/27/2006

我是一个幸福的人

直到早上接到 Lina和Lars 的生日greetings, 我才深深的感觉到

,自怕肩膀表扬哈

不知道Jeff会不会回我的SMS,但 I got nothing to lose, 只是有点想他,真的只是一点点而已,我想这是人在异乡所不能避免的, 而Jeff也真的回了, I get all greeting I wish for, I really can't ak for more, I am a such lucky girl :-)

Olivier 说 hope we meet soon, 怎么样算"soon"?又怎么样"meet"? 哼!

下班的时候,意外的发现竟然收到礼物,可爱的紫色小熊,(不由让我想起习习的小熊自言自语的博,还有资深少女狸狸,但这是礼物,我还是端庄的收下袅

)气球和WHITE WINE,还有一张生日卡片,CANDELWOOD的人都在上面签了名

这真是一个完美的生日

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10/26/2006

生日不过是365天中的一天

去年的这个时候,还在西班牙,并且喝醉被人背回房间的

去年的这个时候,其实还没有遇到OLIVIER

年年岁岁花相似

岁岁年年人不同

From :	niklas malm <niklasmalm@yahoo.se>
Sent :	Thursday, October 26, 2006 10:30 PM
To :	Mindy Wang <mindywang@hotmail.com>
Subject :	SV: It is my birthday tomorrow

Inbox

Hi Mindy,

Thanks för you e-mail. How are things going, any desicion yet?

It is still thursday over here.

I send you my warm congratulations! I hope that you will have a great birthday. Have you planed any big celebrations?

I send you many birthday hughs.

Take care

Niklas

Mindy Wang <mindywang@hotmail.com> skrev:

But I suppose when you get it, it is, hopefully, 27th Oct, then it is my birthday :-)

Nothing speacial, just want to tell you. I hope I don't sound that stupid :-) At least I try not.

Have a nice weekend!

Mindy

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10/25/2006

网球狂人

不,这里说的不是我自己,而是我们网球中心的Matthar

昨天狂风,中午又跑出去和大小美女吃饭,然后逛街买东西,所以最后去练球的时候实在是很累.左边膝盖隐隐作痛,狂人姐姐把我截下,因为米有人陪她打球.

到打的时候,她自己也不积极跑动,就等着我把球往底线调.可怜俺筋疲力尽的,还要在大风里左跑右跑,她MS仍然不满意,到处打电话找人,也不和我说清楚,只说要我等一下云云,把我一个人撂下,不知就里的在大风里等她.

以这样的性格,我想我可以理解为什么狂人姐姐的生活非常不如意

照我说,41岁离异,多好啊,生命里该享受的也享受了,15年的婚姻,爱也爱过,自己和自己爱的两个孩子生活在大房子里,多好,该享受人生了,至于那么急着找下家吗,交往都是要以结婚为前提的

回旅馆后,又被前台的黑姐姐咔油,问我要走一个EL的腮红和睫毛膏,喝了一杯RED WINE,然后心满意足的离开

我KAO,在美国,碰到的奇怪的人太多啦!

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10/23/2006

重新看Sex and City

就象YK说的一样,秋天好象也是轰然的来了,先前冷冷暖暖的试探好象都结束了.但看天气预报,全美很多地方都零下了,好象比瑞典还冷些.

但这种天对我的影响就是,早上在哆唆的冷中醒来,我好象病了

上周五竟然练了三小时的网球,计算一下,我的银子好象也在哗啦啦的淌走.加上临走总要再采购一些,想想回去还要买家具什么的,唉,原本阳光的生活好象也开始寒风阵阵了.

现在回头再看Sex and City (不是因为我多么喜欢看,这里几个台都在不停的重播,加上剧情熟,看起来比较轻松),不仅十分讨厌CHALLOTE,而且觉得她气质也是四个里面最差的

其实现在炸四个人我都不喜欢,上完了床,再在自己朋友面前把对方数落个人神共愤,阁下自己就那么一贯的好,正确?

最讨厌男女完事之后互相之间埋怨,这个世界上,没有谁的生活是容易的,碰到个好的,感激上主让我们享受;不好的,生活就是这么千疮百孔,下次看人的时候拜托把眼睛睁的再大些

能让人回头再看的,总是在细节上很下心思的.总是那种诚恳,让人不忍心拒绝吧,都记不得到底看了多少遍OCEAN TVELVE了,喜欢美国人的那些一欧洲为背景的电影,里面的欧洲要美过欧洲人自己的电影

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10/21/2006

在生活的面前,我们都是平等的

我总是不能认同美女妹妹以衣冠取人的生活态度

为什么年收入百万的人不能穿WAL-MART里卖的便宜衣服呢?我们生活的终级目标是快乐

你可以是贫穷而快乐的,虽然难度好象是大了点,但你绝对可以是富裕但烦恼的

对应生活,对于这个世界,我们应该多点爱,多点不问收获的给予,而不是单纯的criticise

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10/20/2006

no news is good news

MS 生活暂时风平浪静袅,难得啊,喘口气.

仍然忙,忙到商店关门之前才能匆匆去买点儿吃的,因为所有的方便面都吃完了,对于我这种向来喜欢未雨绸缪的人来说,就是很忙的有力证据了.

心情愉快,每天勤奋练秋,即没有爱上谁也没有被谁爱上,秋意渐浓所以睡眠质量也好起来,就是早上起来的时候有点冷,今天早上室内温度是22度,相比整个夏季早上都是什么27度,就很有点冷的感觉了.

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10/18/2006

有选择的生活

Niklas的mail,简洁客观,我无端感动起来.

要我为一个只匆匆见过一面的人放弃一个选择,我也会很犹豫,没有一个智慧的人会对别人的生活指手画脚.

我发现自己的最大问题是,仍然不知道自己想要什么样的生活

常常的长嘘短叹说世界上没有好男人,但自己有不敢真的投入去.大概因为如果自己真的投入,生活的选择就会少很多.有时看那些家庭主妇.她们的最大问题是,当她们对自己的工作厌倦时,是不能辞职走人的.这里指的是绝大多数情形.

自己的事业,虽然离什么风声水起还差的很远,但不多不少还能由自己主宰.还能供自己有份舒适的生活,,如果不成天考虑买LV的话

这份自由很珍贵.

就这样吧,等明天最后的negociation来了,看对方给什么offer,然后再决定,象墨同学说的一样,无论什么样的决定,都是我自己的决定

From :	Mindy Wang <mindywang@hotmail.com>
Sent :	Thursday, October 19, 2006 5:40 AM
To :	niklasmalm@yahoo.se
Subject :	Thank you!

Inbox

Hej Nikla,

Thanks for your mail, you are rightm I am the only one who can decide. And I will.

Actually I think my mother has been the only one always try to give advices, but you know, I usually don't really listen to her :-) So it is the life.

Tomorrow I will have phone conference with them, even I don't know what will be in the end, but I am really happy that we have had such communications.

Take care, and see you in Sweden next month if you can make time.

Mindy

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10/17/2006

Where out of France will you be based? I would say that Paris is a fairly expensive city, at least if you want to have a high standard of living. Of course you can always find a less expensive place in a less atractive area. On the other hand France is a very nice country and Paris is a great place to be.

If i got a decent offer I would seriously consider to go there. On the other hand I know France very well. I guess that the bottom line is that I do not realy want to give you any advices, you have to decide. It would be easier if I know you a bit better, but given the current situation I think that the decision is yours.

As you know I am not from Stockholm originaly and I hope that I one day will have the oportunity to move to the southern part of Sweden, well see.

Well I guess that my mail did not make your life much easier. Maybe you should just flip the coin and let the destiny decide. Or make a pros and cons list.....

Take care

Niklas

Mindy Wang <mindywang@hotmail.com> skrev:

Hej Niklas,

In fact I can't exact recall when I applied this job, must be several months ago, as you know, I bought some sail boat with my friends in France, perhaps I thought to close to the boat, so I can also sail :-)

Anyway, what i need to deicide is to take it or not, and at this ponit it is very hard to see it very clear.

In fact I also applied some other job in Kista, I have never intended to be some strong and independent career woman, at my 30's, I think more to settle down instead move around all over the world, but more and more, I find actually our detiny is not in our own hands, it is decided long ago.

I am sorry if I confuse you, actually I don't know what I really want to say, hopefully you can understand.

Take care!

Mindy

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10/16/2006

丑小鸭一定要变成天鹅吗?

让我百思不得其解的一个问题,说这个妇女解放运动也搞了这么多年,我又住在这个向来以妇女地位高著称的北欧,为什么这妇女的地位越高,这女的就越发难嫁出去?

原来有句老话叫"丑女不愁嫁",好象就是说这女的,但凡不是忒坚决不嫁的,一般都能如愿的嫁出去.

现在,咱们工作上和男人不分伯仲,生不生孩子吧,也得由咱们把关,为什么市面上越来越多条件好的女人却找不到男伴?

在青涩的少年,甚至是青年时代,我们总希望自己长大后会变为天鹅,那么我们就暂时的忍受着作为丑小鸭的绝望.如今我们终于长大了,却发现这个世界已经满满登登的,到处都是天鹅了

而来来往往的白马上坐着的都是唐僧

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10/14/2006

Friday, 13th, is a nice day!

Friday plus 13th, suppose to be bad?

所以才好象是HALLOIN,但是却发生了那么多事,让我身心具疲.

CARLOS终于要走了,我们去吃了晚餐,我是那么那么的饿,先前 together with Jeff More,是快乐而焦虑的等待, the time wewere together, was sooooo nice, 他没有OLIVIER在船上工作的那层光环,所以让我分外的relax, only enjoy, I can't ask for more, it is the best I can imagine! What took you so long?

他离开后,我也不能让自己留在可以到处闻到他,感受但他的房间,于是跑去打网球.

美国,在我要离开之前,终于向我展示她的好的一面,我不由开始留恋起来

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10/13/2006

want it that bad?

早上网球课的时候,照例和老师争论.

伊觉得我很容易就放弃,我则不认同那种过于勤劳但没有天份的人,老师竟然很失望的样子

"愚蠢而勤劳的人"造成的破坏是很大的,我乐于做个愚蠢而懒惰的人

- 聪明而懒惰

- 聪明而勤劳

- 愚蠢而懒惰

- 愚蠢而勤劳

Jeff is the best, at least among I have met so far, it is not fair to compare him with Olivier, at least I am much more experienced, I won't let meself into it too easily.

整件事情令人心情愉快

我在美国改变了很多,真的,精神物质双丰收,和瑞典的生活比起来,起码.

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10/12/2006